We have a responsibility to act on our own 

and not wait for instructions on what to do. 

While it can be tempting to leave everything up to someone else, especially someone who is knowledgeable and whom we respect, we still remain responsible for our own behavior. And it is our responsibility to do what is right even when initially we feel unsure just what right is.

As long as we remain part of this world, it is our responsibility to be informed. To understand the phenomena that we interact with. And then apply the ethical principles that we have learned to decide whether or not to do something. And, if yes, then how best to proceed.

This is why we study and examine those principles—to be able to use fundamental truths (for example, do no harm) in new situations. But if we remain uninformed, we will remain oblivious to the harm we perpetrate. So we cannot wait for someone to hand us instructions for every situation we encounter.

We need to educate ourselves and determine how best to act.

Self-sacrifice and selfless behavior 

aren’t just for the big things in life.  

Years ago, a friend shared with me a special moment that happened at his church. With a minister who was appreciated for his inspiring, passionate sermons, the popular church had grown to become one of the largest in the area.

One spring day, when the church was filled with several hundred people, the minister completed his closing words and looked out over the congregation. He paused to gather his thoughts and then began to speak.

“I have been talking to you today about compassion. About putting the needs of others before our own. Of even sacrificing our personal happiness for that of others. Over the years, as I watch you all get into your cars and depart, I realize my plea for humility and self-sacrifice may not be the first things on the minds of busy people. But today, could you please—just as far as the parking lot—do not determine to be among the first to leave!”

Indeed, sometimes it’s the little things that provide memorable lessons.