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<!--Generated by Squarespace Site Server v5.9.1 (http://www.squarespace.com/) on Mon, 08 Feb 2010 22:34:20 GMT--><?xml-stylesheet type="text/css" href="/universal/styles/feed.css"?><rss version="2.0"><channel><title>abuddhistperspective - Comments</title><link>http://www.abuddhistperspective.org/abuddhistperspective/</link><description></description><copyright></copyright><language>en-US</language><generator>Squarespace Site Server v5.9.1 (http://www.squarespace.com/)</generator><item><title>john b comments on Non-attachment not Detachment</title><author>john b</author><pubDate>Thu, 04 Feb 2010 16:28:11 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.abuddhistperspective.org/abuddhistperspective/2010/2/3/non-attachment-not-detachment.html#comments</link><guid isPermaLink="false">107889:956850:comment/7223165</guid><description><![CDATA[So much misunderstanding about Buddhism!  Thank you so much for clarifying this very important issue.]]></description></item><item><title>Linda comments on Non-attachment not Detachment</title><author>Linda</author><pubDate>Thu, 04 Feb 2010 16:00:03 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.abuddhistperspective.org/abuddhistperspective/2010/2/3/non-attachment-not-detachment.html#comments</link><guid isPermaLink="false">107889:956850:comment/7222919</guid><description><![CDATA[This is a really important distinction, I feel. I think a lot of us spiritual seekers get confused about this. I remember when I was part of a yoga group many years ago, this misconception about needing to be detached was rampant to the point that some of us made an art form out of being cold, aloof, unfeeling and generally emotionally constipated, all with the very best of intentions of course! And I remember we often worried about how to be &quot;detached&quot; from those whom we loved. That word - &quot;detachment&quot; - was used a lot and I see now that it caused a lot of confusion and difficulties in relationships. It was probably just a bad translation for what should have been &quot;non-attachment&quot; which I think often had the effect of reinforcing emotional shutdown. It would have been good to have had this important understanding of the difference between detachment and non-attachment explained so well back then. I'm sure quite a few marriages would have been saved for a start! Anyway, it's good to have it now - thank you.]]></description></item><item><title>Sue K comments on Non-attachment not Detachment</title><author>Sue K</author><pubDate>Thu, 04 Feb 2010 02:03:04 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.abuddhistperspective.org/abuddhistperspective/2010/2/3/non-attachment-not-detachment.html#comments</link><guid isPermaLink="false">107889:956850:comment/7219275</guid><description><![CDATA[I'm so glad you posted this again.  :-)<br/><br/>Today there was a situation of, &quot;If you tell them the truth they will be angry.&quot;  I thought about it.  I decided the truth was still the best course.  My integrity or their anger?  Hmmm.  <br/><br/>I thought about the anger part.  Anger is really an ego meltdown.  The ego isn't interested in the truth.  Hopefully they will realize their soul will benefit from the truth.<br/><br/>The lesson for me was, when I find I'm getting angry, I need to practice non-attachment to my ego.  Observe the ego's tantrum and then be thankful there is a lesson in the situation for myself and the other person.<br/><br/>When you were here in the US I think this was the most valuable lesson you taught me/us.  Thank you.]]></description></item><item><title>Cameo comments on I Resolve</title><author>Cameo</author><pubDate>Wed, 03 Feb 2010 19:44:50 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.abuddhistperspective.org/abuddhistperspective/2010/1/31/i-resolve.html#comments</link><guid isPermaLink="false">107889:956850:comment/7201147</guid><description><![CDATA[Venerable,<br/>I have printed your I RESOLVE poem and intend to study it when I do my morning practice, It is so clear and beautifully phrased. One thing brings up a question. It's the vow to not engage in any sensory indulgence. Does this mean to not allow music to soothe my pain, or the beauty of nature to stop my thoughts and observe the perfection? As an artist, I do indulge my senses. Is it possible you mean to never enjoy the experience of being alive nor the comforting experience of feeling the sunlight on my body? This is a hard one for me. My art work and poetry are sensual experiences. Are they wrong? Please help me to understand.<br/>Amituofo<br/>Cameo]]></description></item><item><title>Venerable Wuling comments on Tahdah!!!</title><author>Venerable Wuling</author><pubDate>Sat, 30 Jan 2010 05:44:48 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.abuddhistperspective.org/abuddhistperspective/2010/1/28/tahdah.html#comments</link><guid isPermaLink="false">107889:956850:comment/7102397</guid><description><![CDATA[Cameo,<br/><br/>Aha! You went straight to the eBook! ;-) <br/><br/>Under the tab &quot;The Book&quot; it explains that the paperback books are currently being printed and should be available the second quarter of the year. There will then be a list of where the books can be obtained in different countries.]]></description></item></channel></rss>