Instead of trying to surpass others, 

help them to succeed.  

We seem to have reached the point at which everything we do entails competition.

For me to gain, someone else has to lose. Others have to buy my product, not yours. Like me more on Facebook than you. Agree with me, not you.

Clearly, people don’t grasp the pervasiveness of reaping what they sow. The problem is compounded by most people believing they have only one lifetime. So all they can hope to know is what they might remember from earlier in their life. Tragically, this is like looking at what I did in the last ten seconds and basing all my decisions on that brief instant of time. Short-sighted, to say the least.

Having learned about rebirth and causality, our knowing what causes we need to have planted to sell that product or have others like us on social media or agree with us, we can relax.

What a relief!

Now we can stop trying to outdo everyone and, instead, help them accomplish what they hope for by learning how to plant the right seeds.

Graciousness: a timeless virtue.  

What a lovely, old-fashioned word.

Graciousness brings to mind ladies in hooped skirts and men in top hats out for a morning stroll through the park. Yes, well, that’s an unfortunate image. Why? Because graciousness is the unselfish offering of courtesy, being accommodating and kind, and respecting others and being at ease with oneself.

It’s not a virtue we should ascribe to a past age.

We need it today if there is to be a tomorrow.

Let’s fast-forward one of those couples to today. Fully kitted out for their morning jog, smartphones tucked into their own armbands, and earbuds in, our couple is busily making calls to get an early start on the day. In their world, our world too, there’s no time for “graciousness.” Really?

There’s no time to let someone give his opinion before offering yours?

No time to let someone in line ahead of you?

Compliment a co-worker on a job well done?

Play with your child?

No time?

There’s always time for the things we want to do.

Always.

Don’t allow that negative thought

to become your new mantra. 

Something is seen or heard that bothers us, a lot. It wasn’t fair. It wasn’t thoughtful. It’s not supposed to be that way. Whatever the reason, we are incapable of just brushing the thought aside and getting on with our life. It’s pretty ironic when you think of it.

What we want to do is focus on the thought of Amituofo, but our mind keeps sliding away from him.

What we don’t want to do is keep thinking the negative thought, but our mind keeps returning to it as surely as chicks scurry back to the mother hen.

We end up turning those irritating thoughts into our latest mantra; reviewing them like a favorite movie, refining them as if editing the next best-seller. Maybe our returning is understandable: the irritation is right outside our window. Or perhaps we just can’t, actually won’t, forgive and forget. Well, we need to.

If you were to die right now, what would you want to be thinking of—Amituofo or that thought?