Instead of automatically reacting with sarcasm

or trying to be clever, think again.

Will our wit ridicule another?

Will our sarcasm harm the listener?

For varied reasons, ranging from wanting to make others laugh to being considered witty, we can find ourselves using sarcasm. But what is sarcasm? Yet another manifestation of anger.

We may view ourselves as amusing, but we’re just being unkind in belittling another person or some situation. There’s a valid reason the Greeks defined sarcasm as “tearing flesh.”

Before glibly tossing out another sarcastic quip, we need to figure out why we feel inclined to do so.

So others will laugh?

Think us sophisticated with our rapier wit? Surely, we can find a way to cheer people up or impress them with our humor without resorting to disrespect and ridicule.

And if we really are clever, we will realize that our sharp remarks nurture tension in others on a subtle level as well as plant seeds for our own future belittlement.

Ordinary beings view things dualistically:

as two, not one.

Awakened beings understand

all phenomena are one, not two.

Viewing all circumstances and objects with a dualistic mind, we see them as being in opposition, as either one thing or another. We thus categorize everything in contrasting terms like pleasing or annoying, superior or inferior.

With such discriminatory thoughts, we spend time trying to acquire more of what we desire while avoiding everything we dislike.

Viewing things dualistically causes us endless problems and agitation.

For example, viewing a spoon from different angles another person and I argue over whether the spoon is convex or concave.

Awakened beings, on the other hand, understand that all phenomena are one. They observe the spoon as one object with two aspects. In such a manner, they view all situations and objects non-dualistically, and can act judiciously without a trace of rancor. 

Cultivation is like rowing a boat upriver:

unless we keep rowing steadily,

we’ll end up adrift. 

Few of us would disagree with the idea that sporadic practice does not benefit us as much as daily cultivation. But trying to find a way to squeeze one more task into our already hectic weekdays is, at the very least, daunting. And so, telling ourselves that this way we will get to chant and study for a longer time, we plan on practicing on weekends instead.

But even if we did keep to our weekend schedule, the benefits would not prove as significant as those from daily learning and practice.

First, we would not engage in the regular chanting that calms us and gradually empowers us to master our thoughts rather than be enslaved by them.

Second, cultivation includes applying the teachings in all we do. Regular teachings—even brief ones—help us remain focused.

Thus, instead of finding ourselves continually adrift, we will steadily progress.